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Finished reading: Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman 📚

Less, how to manage your tasks, more:

To remember how little you matter, on a cosmic timescale, can feel like putting down a heavy burden that most of us didn’t realize we were carrying in the first place.

I dug it.

Remember: when people tell you something’s wrong or doesn’t work for them, they are almost always right. When they tell you exactly what they think is wrong and how to fix it, they are almost always wrong.

Source: Tom Kerwin quoting Neil Gaiman 💬

Newsletters “or, an enormous rant about writing on the web that doesn’t really go anywhere and that’s okay with me.”

The loss of creative people is complex. If we have nothing to do with a creator in person, then our grief is often more to do with the loss of potential future output—the books unwritten and songs unsung. But we are not our work. It is a part of us, but not the whole of us. Certainly no substitute for the love we give—or are unable to give—to our children. No shortcut to understanding our innermost selves, or what we meant to the people who loved us.

mind the gap